If you have not told your mother how much you love her while she was here on earth with you, is it too late to tell her after she is gone? Not at all. Karen Moss Hale of Newclevelandradio talks about her love letter written after her mother died. This was not an easy task for her, but she stuck to it version after version until it was just right and then mailed it. Oh? Mailed it? Yes. Find out to whom. So worth figuring out where a love letter to the deceased should go because the benefit can travels down and serves generations to come if you mail it to the right place.
Mother daughter relationships can be fraught with understandable exasperation that can blessedly melt away after death, leaving us with memories of the best. So why not take the time to bathe in the best because the love letter written after death has healing properties all its own. She talks about this, too with joy, laughter and some comical moments of natural daughterly vexation and impatience.
I think you will do yourself a favor by listening to Karen talk about her mother, herself and her letter. And, if you want to see her close up talking about it, check out her Youtube and see the face of daughterly devotion.